|One of the hundreds of loving moments which makes life worth living...|
Life was simple and boring until 20th August 1991. At 7.18 a.m. on that day, the most wonderful moment of my life took place. I gave birth to a child and I was born again. That is a contradictory sentence, but that is how life has been ever since. When I say, ‘I was born’, that is the beginning of my alter personality which started taking over me and changing me into a Maa. Days have passed by, and finally, ‘Maa’ rules my life now.
I was a trouble maker as a child, but, as I grew up, I sobered down. Though I had those temper tantrums, crying bouts and other teen related symptoms; for most of my teen years I was quite, scared and withdrawn young girl. I was afraid of the world. Loud sounds, fights, dogs, cows, men, and eve teasers everything scared me in my teens. I do not understand when and why the transition happened, but somewhere during my adolescent time it took place slowly and unnoticed by me. On the other hand, that could be one of the other alter egos taking over me, or just simple growing up process. Whatever, I damn sure that I was not the same person in my teens, as I am now nor the one I was in my childhood. The present myself can relate well to the childhood myself, but in no way can it see eye to eye with my teen self; which was hollow, pretentious, always trying to please others, and nervous.
|Look at the child, not the walls.. :)|
Relationships often have responsibilities attached which take away a part of you or change you into something else. Being a daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, student or wife had that kind of effect of on me.
The best part about having kids is they did not take away what is there in me and change me into a Maa. They have brought the real me out and made me what I was really meant to be in the first place. They haven’t driven me nuts – but made me think wisely. They have not made me weak and nervous but made me strong and brave. They have given me the enthusiasm to fight for my life and live in their happy world, enjoying their company. I can proudly say ‘I am at my best when I am being a Maa’.
I am indebted to my children for returning my own self back to me. I would like to share a small poem here which many years ago Rayyan (7 yrs) walked up to me and rendered spontaneously. I treasure it one of the best award I ever received. It was said in much simpler words in mixed up language. I wrote it down and kept it in my own words.
God gave me a Maa.
God has given me legs to walk
A boneless tongue to talk
A short nose to poke about
A big mouth to eat and shout
A cheek to receive lovely kiss
Friends to help me in crisis
Wonderful teachers to teach
A father to discipline me and preach
A heart to warn me when dangers lurk
Two tiny hands to do my work
Above all God gave me a Mommy
Who can do everything for me!
She talks for me when my words fail
She pokes about when I lose trail
She shouts on my behalf when I have sore throat
She plays with me when my friends tire out
She teaches me what my teachers can’t
She preaches me when my father won’t
She is in my heart to make it strong
She is like music and a beautiful song
I love my Maa.
Off course I love that dear boy who is grown up and fast turning into a wonderful animator now..
|Fun time with kids|
|Farheena continuing the art work in her sleep...|
She was unstoppable..
I am indebted to my children for returning my own self back to me. Few Memorable moments I have enjoyed with my loving children.
|Having fun with costumes|
|Another childish behavior of Maa LOL|
|Annie enjoying Farheena's birthday cake|
|Annie wears flowers in her hair for the first time.|
|The beach dramas...|
|Rayyan being extremely excited about his paper hat|
|Picnics are more fun with children|
| Cooking is fun when you cook for your kids. Their smile pays with happiness|