tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post2736635387061758316..comments2024-03-29T13:07:07.527+05:30Comments on Chapters From My Life: Trapped in a cocoon...Chapters From My Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07905577212056834284noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-85854433497737903812013-02-26T18:52:27.562+05:302013-02-26T18:52:27.562+05:30You are very right when you said marriage is all a...You are very right when you said marriage is all about sacrifices and more so in India. If we don't do it, we are labelled. <br /><br />A moving poem and all I wanna say is 'Soar High!'Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-80664127865359021642012-01-03T21:37:12.085+05:302012-01-03T21:37:12.085+05:30Keep spreading those wings, Farida. For myself, I&...Keep spreading those wings, Farida. For myself, I'm glad I stayed single. Even then, it's hard enough to break out. xoxoKathihttp://accidentalamazon.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-56923800479569684972011-09-02T17:00:51.640+05:302011-09-02T17:00:51.640+05:30Loved all the points you made. It does seem wrong ...Loved all the points you made. It does seem wrong that one partner is made to see marriage (or relationships) as more important than the other partner. There can be no balance or harmony without individuality and freedom. Humans need to be themselves, we need not live in cocoons.Indian Home Makerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10649133480442907582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-72449179828153575572011-08-17T20:44:43.958+05:302011-08-17T20:44:43.958+05:30Being in a cocoon is also part of our journey to k...Being in a cocoon is also part of our journey to knowing ourselves. Only when there is a loss do we realize what we had. Keep your center no matter what happens around you and All will be Well. <br /><br />P.S. came here via Shail's sharing. Beautiful poem :).Mysoulhttp://mysoul.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-48070053870124139222011-08-17T18:52:31.866+05:302011-08-17T18:52:31.866+05:30A very interesting piece...still have to get marri...A very interesting piece...still have to get married, almost in the age. Read this post makes me more nervous thoughSnehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08862691503674826946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-55422166179938821342011-08-17T12:27:18.902+05:302011-08-17T12:27:18.902+05:30Wonderful post and beautiful poem :)Wonderful post and beautiful poem :)Shailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07174562168503272243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-366175717535397022011-08-07T23:47:22.131+05:302011-08-07T23:47:22.131+05:30oh...beautiful poem...
the journey continues...to...oh...beautiful poem...<br /><br />the journey continues...towards freedom.Subhrashis Adhikarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10925822796440985088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-87807258282284288212011-08-07T19:54:38.752+05:302011-08-07T19:54:38.752+05:30Nicely written.. It is the story of almost 80% hou...Nicely written.. It is the story of almost 80% housewives.Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09508144105021934329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-57147864942475174562011-08-07T16:28:22.229+05:302011-08-07T16:28:22.229+05:30Thanks for your supportive words everyone.Thanks for your supportive words everyone.Chapters From My Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07905577212056834284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-69558003172131597432011-08-07T16:07:56.455+05:302011-08-07T16:07:56.455+05:30I can only say this: you dont need to live in Indi...I can only say this: you dont need to live in India to feel trapped in a cocoon.. I felt trapped in my marriage, and I did everything to make it better, unless breaking my self free. One day I did. There was no other way for me. Just remember that the butterfly transform inside that cocoon and break it self out as a little vorm. New, and growing into a new butterfly.. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-72772059907162555912011-08-07T16:05:11.892+05:302011-08-07T16:05:11.892+05:30Its actually alarming to c the declining rates of ...Its actually alarming to c the declining rates of successful marriages in d world today!<br />When it comes to indian society its definitely a step ahead..all in all my personal opinion is that marriage is gamble..u just got to set ur cards right!<br /><br />the poem is lovely :)<br /><br /><br />sarahSarah malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15900352659438484102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-47515638570237020332011-08-07T16:05:04.685+05:302011-08-07T16:05:04.685+05:30It is so true. But i don’t understand why do peopl...It is so true. But i don’t understand why do people make mistakes and sometimes it irks me when marriage is the ultimate agenda in the life of people. Some girls get married to ease social pressure and act like total teenage show-off types. <br />What happened to the individuality? <br /><br />But i would never let anyone suffocate my individuality come what may. <br /><br />God bless you.Megha Sarinhttp://www.meghasarin.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-20251632042945417622011-08-06T11:22:54.824+05:302011-08-06T11:22:54.824+05:30Beautifully woven:)Beautifully woven:)Deepa Gopalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11120735937767070980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-11007718529958400152011-08-06T05:23:27.887+05:302011-08-06T05:23:27.887+05:30Indian women have stood the challenge of Sati syst...Indian women have stood the challenge of Sati system, dowry deaths and home abuse for a long time. This is not going to discourage them in any way.. You will find a wife Giridhar. ;)Chapters From My Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07905577212056834284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-10897357176772866832011-08-06T02:29:01.254+05:302011-08-06T02:29:01.254+05:30I liked the poem and the analogy is unmistakable. ...I liked the poem and the analogy is unmistakable. At the same time, I felt this might, I am afraid its going to discourage people from getting married =)Giridhar Agoramhttp://letmescribble.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-26712449314371155562011-08-06T01:23:51.682+05:302011-08-06T01:23:51.682+05:30Beautiful expression of the agony.In Indian contex...Beautiful expression of the agony.In Indian context, therefore it said-'Aabla Naari'.S.R.Ayyangarhttp://srayyangar.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-54647711559825200672011-08-05T22:21:45.353+05:302011-08-05T22:21:45.353+05:30You do have the gift of expression lady, cherish i...You do have the gift of expression lady, cherish it. And keep sharing with others as you are already doing, well done!Satish Mutatkarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05991121115414085638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-41149642893749746022011-08-05T20:47:15.192+05:302011-08-05T20:47:15.192+05:30Beautiful poem and very factual and touching write...Beautiful poem and very factual and touching write up. tumbaa chennagidhe.<br />catch me on sushmaspage.blogspot when you can find time.sushhttp://sushmaspage.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-91067690961603684562011-08-05T20:24:52.673+05:302011-08-05T20:24:52.673+05:30Brilliant programBrilliant programShrinidhi Handehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00875443161762278339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-82914721576283271402011-08-05T17:43:14.904+05:302011-08-05T17:43:14.904+05:30Beautiful poem.. so much for self realisation!
als...Beautiful poem.. so much for self realisation!<br />also loved Wanderer's version..<br /><br />Your new follower.<br />xx<br />Defiant PrincessDefiant Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02867365575873568199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-73808044320404274232011-08-05T06:49:29.786+05:302011-08-05T06:49:29.786+05:30Oh.. beautifully written. Realising that it is tra...Oh.. beautifully written. Realising that it is trapped and making up it's mid to be free again is a big leap towards freedom. Once the mind is made up to be free, it will find it's own path to freedom!<br /> Yearning to see a poem on the joys of experiencing freedom soon.Iniyaalhttp://ArtBeautySociety.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-2469455806929631312011-08-04T19:01:21.400+05:302011-08-04T19:01:21.400+05:30Beautifully worded. How well we can relate our lif...Beautifully worded. How well we can relate our life to the life in a cocoon.Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-37911762604514612752011-08-04T16:06:43.588+05:302011-08-04T16:06:43.588+05:30A poem full of hope and positivity! Very touching ...A poem full of hope and positivity! Very touching lines with delicate emotions...Wonderful!Artihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14606566484548310912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-28722440770166871182011-08-04T12:53:26.933+05:302011-08-04T12:53:26.933+05:30Well written. Quite appealing.Well written. Quite appealing.Hariharan Valadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12244321351448793974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2299833759523653735.post-16259223502362940002011-08-04T10:24:21.330+05:302011-08-04T10:24:21.330+05:30Farida ji,
Those lines are so beautifully expresse...Farida ji,<br />Those lines are so beautifully expressed. I guess it is never too late to find yourself. Realizing that the butterfly has the wings that could help her fly is a huge awakening in itself. Not many of us are gifted with such vision. I am glad that you are one among the opportune ones. Thanks for sharing your exquisite thoughts. Following your blog. You may like to follow mine. <br />Barkha Dhar<br /> http://dharbarkha.blogspot.com/2011/08/its-tough-to-be-man.htmlBarkha Dharhttp://dharbarkha.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com