I wish you many returns of the day Animator Rayyan..
Sometimes it takes just a simple comment from a stranger to
make you realize the truth that has been staring at you all through, but still
escaped your attention. One such incident happened around 15 years ago.
I used to regularly visit a shop with my children,
especially Rayyan to buy toys and snacks. It was run by a very friendly couple,
who with passing time became good friends with us. I learned from them that due
to some medical condition, the wife could not conceive, but they had resigned
happily to their life without children and hence did not consider adoption. I could see the
unconditional love they had for each other and being childless did not much
bother them. One day as we were chatting, they said something which made a huge
difference to my attitude towards Rayyan. What the couple said was, “Many
people visit our shop with their children for shopping. Usually the children
are so inconsiderate and demanding that we feel glad as we do not have to deal
with such children in our lives. It is only when you bring Rayyan here that we
regret not having a son like him in our lives, or else being childless doesn't seem
that bad at all. You are very lucky to have a son like him”. It was a simple
sentence, uttered casually, but it touched my heart and brought tears to my
eyes.
It was as though the curtain was lifted and I could see what
a blessing my child was. He was so calm and peaceful, never troubling me, not
demanding anything, in fact refusing to buy something if he found it was priced
high. I grew up assuming I was a perfect child, who every parent would love to
have, because I worked very hard to be successful. But all of a sudden I realized
that, what parents want is not high achieving child, but a child who loves,
cares and makes life bearable for them. That is what Rayyan is. Even at the
tender age of 5, he was a silent support for me during my cancer days. He was
always ready to help me with house work, taking care of Farheena, running
errands and many more. I am not sure that I did all that for parents in my
childhood. All I did was to work harder to get more marks or win some
competition, therefore I feel, though my parents felt proud with my achievements,
they may never have experienced the pleasantness that I feel around Rayyan.
Every year I ask Rayyan what he would want for his birthday,
and he always says, “Nothing Maa, I have everything I want in my life”, though, he lovingly buys me wonderful presents for my birthdays.
I have learned to know the goodness in my son and love him
unconditionally, which is what he well deserves. Today I sincerely pray to God
to give him health, wealth, love, happiness and success in his life. He is the best son anyone can have.
...and from a friend you didn't know you had. May all your dreams come true, big guy.
ReplyDeleteWish Rayyan infinitely more wonderful years! And what a lucky mom you are, Farida!
ReplyDeleteWish Rayyan hundreds of happy returns:) ..and YOU celebrate them Farida:)
ReplyDeletethank you maa !!!! this is one of the best gift i every got !!!!
ReplyDeleteMany happy returns of the day for Rayyan and you. Maternal love is supreme and that's why I wrote an article: 'A Father Is Just A Father, But A Mother Is Life'. I believe in it.
ReplyDeleteMany many happy returns of the day to the young man.. wishing him a very happy birthday.
ReplyDeleteBikram's
Wish Rayyan a happy Birthday from me. Your post is so touching. It brought tears to my eyes...
ReplyDeleteBlessings.
ReplyDeleteWow that was such a heartfelt post Farida mam.. I think Rayyan would be so happy to know the love you have for him & read these words.. I've always felt mothers words are beautiful in their own way :)
ReplyDeleteWow...best what a WONDERFUL Mom could tell and wish her son. Wishing Rayyan A HAPPY BDAY:)
ReplyDeleteMany happy returns to Rayyan. May Allah Bless him with all that he needs to grow into a successful and loving person :)
ReplyDeleteSuch a sweet post! Wish the young boy all the happiness, the joys and the successes in the world - Happy Birthday Rayyan :)
ReplyDeleteWish Rayyan a very happy birthday and wish him all the success and happiness in his life:)
ReplyDeleteWish you a very happy birthday Rayyan.
ReplyDeleteLovely post!:)
ReplyDeleteMany happy returns to Rayyan:))
Wish you many happy returns of the day, Rayyan! Your mom is indeed lucky to have you as her son and so are you to have her as your ma. God Bless you both :)
ReplyDeleteI wish my Ma was this lucky. May Allah bless Rayyan with all the love luck health happiness and prosperity in this world!
ReplyDeletehappy b'day Rayyan !
ReplyDeleteMany happy returns of the day to Rayyan. At least part of the credit of how he's turned out goes to you Farida. So congratulations.
ReplyDeleteJust reading this makes me long to have a child like Rayyan, Farida. You are blessed to have each other. May Rayyan grow in love and wisdom.
ReplyDeleteThank you everyone for the good wishes you sent for Rayyan.
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